I was talking today with a wonderful young couple just starting out on the journey of faith and marriage. They are seeking to find God’s place for them in life as His disciples. As our conversation meandered around the details and detours of life, I was reminded of an important lesson learned this past year.
Genuine faith knows that God will never fail, but I might. The risk in following God is not that He will ever let me down, but that He may ask me to let go. If I loose my house because I can’t pay the mortgage, am I a failure or has God simply asked me to put my faith in Him? If my church fails to launch, is it because I am a failure, or because God simply asked me to let it go?
What? Is that possible? Doesn’t the Bible guarantee that if we have faith we can do anything? Isn’t that a guarantee from God that we will never fail if we have faith and the only reason we will fail is because our faith is weak? Doesn’t God guarantee three square meals a day and a safe place to lie down at night? That is what I used to think too, but read your Bible.
I wonder if Paul, the Apostle, questioned his faith every time he was stoned or shipwrecked. When Joseph sat in prison for over a decade did he question God and say, “why have you allowed me to fail?” Every one of Jesus’ original disciples, except Peter, died for their faith. Was Peter the only one with real faith? What of those faithful Christ-followers in Africa who die each day from starvation? Is their faith impotent and unable to guarantee them success? Isn’t that just what people said to Jesus as He hung dying on the cross, “you miserable failure, you can’t even save yourself!”? In the worlds eyes, these people may be failures, but through the eyes of the Kingdom, they were amazing success stories.
From a worldly perspective, let me ask you this, “is your faith strong enough to withstand a failure?” Are you willing to walk in obedience even if it means you will not “succeed”? Are you only willing to follow, if God first shows you the outcome and guarantees you a certain result?
I meet far too many people who are sitting on the sidelines, waiting for the perfect time, the perfect plan and the perfect promise of success before they will get out and follow after Jesus. Just like the rich young ruler, so many people are crying out, “I will follow you Jesus… but not at the cost of financial ruin… not at the cost of failure!”
I was inspired to talk with this couple today because I am confident they get it and they have faith enough to fail. And I am confident they will not forget that God does not measure success by how many goals we meet, but by how many time we meet Him along the way.
This article was published in May. 9, 2007 issue of our local paper, The Gazette.





